We were born to be Phenomenal why live less?

Hey everyone I wanted to write about something that I have seen in myself as well as many others I have been around for years. Have you or anyone you known lived below their means? Making the decision to live safe and comfortable instead of reaching out, pushing your limits and testing your strengths and weaknesses? We were all born to be phenomenal, to live anything else is a waste really. But to live this life we need to stop doing certain things and start doing others. What are those things? Well for one, to live a phenomenal life you need to fill yourself and surround yourself with positive motivational energy. It's not an easy road you are going to set yourself on, which is why not many people choose it. You can and will lose some friends and family, you can and will make others. However in saying this I find the positive energy attracts, you will become a magnet, you will be looked upon to show others that it is possible. The more we put ourselves out there and grow the more we will show those we love and care about and even others we didn't know existed that they too can do it! They too can become what they desire most, that living below their true strengths is nothing but a waste of the energy, love, and anything else that makes you up. Become that leader the world needs! The world needs more positive influences, we are a world diseased with hatred and fear. What most don't understand is that hatred and fear isn't just outward coming in it is inward being projected out. I am going to challenge all of my readers to spend 1 week doing a few steps and see what happens in your life. The challenge will change you, it won't be easy for everyone some of you it will. Some of you are probably doing it already. What is this challenge? To wake up each day look in the mirror and tell yourself out loud "I am grateful that I am alive to make this change today to become something more. I am worth it! I am phenomenal! I love myself and I will accomplish my dreams and goals in life!" When you go to bed at night go over all of your accomplishments for that day, no matter how small they seem be grateful for them and celebrate them. The things that didn't go right that day, ask yourself what you learned from it and what you can do different to make it go right next time. Don't dwell on "failures" everyone has them, but the successful people don't see them as walls they see them as stepping stones to greatness. Success isn't a dream it's a mindset. Success is possible for everyone! I will see you all in 1 week and look forward to reading about your successes in life and changes you have seen in yourself and even those you love and care about.

Work on yourself daily

Everyday is such a great day being able to write to you all and post things look forward to being able to bring value to all your lives.  Today I would like to talk about working on yourself daily.

Do you read any books to expand your mind?  Or perhaps better yourself in your chosen field?  Maybe even teach you what you need to know to change your current situation or carreer path even?

If we don't do things to help ourselves grow each day we become complacent on where we are.  We tend to settle, which in turn stops us from growing.  It's at these times we need to remind ourselves we are worth more, we deserve more.  We should be pushing ourselves that much harder to grow.

Pick up a book, watch a video, go to a seminar.  Do something that keeps your mind going.  Pushes you a little more each day.  If we fail that is fine it's just preparing us for the next win!  We need to keep going.  #NeverGiveUp

Don't let regret ruin you

Hey everyone, just wanted to talk a little about regret tonight.  Regret is something that can ruin so many things in your life.  It can run you down, stress you out.  It can ruin relationships, even your future.  Regret is one of the most painful destructive feelings you can ever have.

Best way I have found to deal with regret is to not allow it into your life.  Take chances, live your life.  Don't let fears hold you back, you should let them push you forward.  Fear is the tipping point of realizing your full potential.  Regret is what you get when you let fear hold you back from your full potential.

I for one have recently battled my regret.  Took my chances on my fears and won.  You deserve to win as well.  Don't let anything hold you back.   You'll be happy you did it in any outcome.  Even if it's a negative because at least you will have your answer have the power of knowing you tried your best, gave it your all and even if it didn't work out.  You now know instead of living with the "what if" for the rest of your life.

So keep trying my friends, keeping pushing forward #NeverGiveUp

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Sales and it's truths

Lots of people seem to be afraid of sales in one way or another.  It's my belief that people are clouded on what sales really is.  Some may have had a bad experience with a type of sale and now believe that that is all sales.  Well to let out the truth if we like it or not we are all in sales from the day we are born till the day we die.  Everything we do involves a sale of some sort.  We are all born natural sales people. Before you think I'm nuts let me explain.  When you are a child you sell your parents on feeding you, or even as far as feeding you the foods you like and not the ones you don't like.  You sell them on spending more time with you grabbing their attention etc.  all this is done before we are even able to speak.  We sold through noises, cries, grunts, etc.  As we get older and learn our language we perfect other ways of selling toget the candies, toys, later bed times, et that we want.  We then continue this selling into our later years of making new friendships, selling our friends on the idea we make a good friend.  Which again later we expan to finding a mate, selling not only our mate on picking us as their companion but selling their family on ourselves as well.  This selling continues through our lives to other relationships through work, business etc.  We never stop selling.  In the end selling is what has brought us to our current lives, the good and the bad.  Even with the bra we don't stop selling we just adjust and learn to sell differently or better.  In that the human race is amazing we thrive to better ourselves and adjust and adapt as needed.  One thing I have noticed some of us don't do enough is sell ourselves on how awesome we are and how much we have and can accomplish in our lives.  So today sell yourself on you.  Take time to tell yourself how amazing you are and show yourself your dreams and accomplishments sell yourself to love yourself.  Have an amazing day!

Self Advancement

today I want to talk to you about taking time to improve on yourself. This could come in the form of many ways. I for one read a lot of self help books, as well as listen to self help audio books and even some podcasts on hypnosis and self help. I have also currently taken up improving on my health and personal well being through exercise. I have been going to the gym now for a few months, to start was off and on. I have no set up a system I do regularly 3 days a week of weightlifting at my gym as well as 3 days of cardio done at home or at the gym. Seeing I am still working as a custodian at the University I work at I have set my workout days to days I work and found a 24hr gym to work out at where I go to directly from work after my shift. So far to get started was a little slow. Setting up a process and getting set into a routine which can take time and energy. Though now I have been doing this new system for 3 weeks I feel amazing! Health wise I feel more energetic and get sick a lot less. Personal well being I feel better as well, I am more confident in myself with how I look as well as how I respond to people. I would recommend anyone who feels down on themselves or low energy or negativity to take up some form of exercise be it weight lifting or jogging, biking, whatever you like. It may be hard to begin with but push through it know that it is important for you and set your goal in high importance. I know you'll start feeling better and become more positive in life. For other ways of self advancement, I recommend going to your library, or book store, or even search online for self help. You'll be surprised what you find. If you need a little guidance in that area of what to look for I have found a few things I have liked. I listen to audios from Jodeph Clough, you can find him on iphone and android apps, youtube and even facebook. I read and have ready a few books as well. Think and Grow Rich is a great book by Napolean Hill, I have recently picked up & Habits of Highly Effective People, by Stephen R. Covey, I have also ready How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie. All of which have been great books and I recommend reading them more then once and not only just reading them but take action on the steps and things you learn in each book. I know you'll see great results, or at the very least learn some interesting things about yourself and others. Keep pushing forward to your goals and don't let others try to drag you down. take ownership over your life and take action now! Don't wait till tomorrow, we're never guaranteed a tomorrow in this life, but you are alive now, so enjoy it like it may be your last!

Accountability

Do you hold yourself accountable for what you do to reach your goals? I find if I don't hold myself accountable my progress on my goals is very slow if any progress at all. We can find excuses for just about anything but instead I finding excuses of why you should do something try finding excuses of why not to do it.

Write your goals down keep them where you can see them and even where others can see them as well. Share your goals with the world. Grow it out and and see what happens. Who knows maybe you'll find others who have the same goals as you do and you an team up and help each other reach the greatness you all deserve.

Review your goals often sometimes they change and if you don't accomplish them in the time you wanted don't look for excuses of what happened just review your actions learn from your mistakes and re adjust your plan of action and keep moving forward.

The great thing about life is you can make mistakes but you are in control of how you see those mistakes, you can see them negatively and get yourself down or you can see them as a positive move forward and hold yourself accountable for what happened and learn from it.

Action Day

Hey everyone, just thought I would write a little about action in your business. What good is a dream and plan if there is no action? As long as you have a dream, a plan to make that dream come true and put it all into action there is no way you can lose. In network marketing companies I have learned there is what they call the 80/20 rule, which basically means that when you talk to 100 people you may get about 20 people who are interested. Don't let this discourage you though. Because as network companies go, people have become millionaires or bigger with helping those 20 people do the same thing they are doing. Now I have also learnt that a good way to start is by doing 75 calls, from the training that I did I had learnt that out of 5 people you call you may get 1 person interested or who deserves more time to take to the next step. Then you'll need to call 5 more sets to find 5 people who qualify for more time out of those in the end you should find 2 people who are interested in product use and 1 who will build the business like you do.

Your numbers may vary but it is a good start to see where in that 75 you are and use that as a guideline to get better. As long as you run the numbers there is no way to lose! If you are having problems with finding people who qualify for more info call more people, it's all about the numbers. Don't be upset if you start calling people and you find that you aren't getting anyone right away. I have talked to quite a few people who are now making over $1,000,000/year and they have all told me that they had to go through 100 or more sometimes 500 calls before they started to get people to look at their business and get comfortable making the calls. So if your company has some cheap lead calls you can get start with those first. Get comfortable with the calls then as you get more successful and more comfortable move up to the more expensive ones. Good Luck everyone I know you can do it! feel free to comment on my blog, and also visit my website at DreamstoReality.realprosperityzone.com/blog